The Dance of Connection
With its compelling storyline, powerful soundtrack, big name actors and sheer magnetism, it’s no surprise that 2024’s Wicked has set box office records and become a pop culture phenomenon.
In one of the film’s most moving scenes, Elphaba, a fierce and generally self-assured outcast, begins a sort of bizarre but lovely expressive dance amidst a mocking crowd. When the charismatic Prince Fiaro comments, “I’ll say this much; she doesn’t give a twig what anyone thinks,” flawless and ever-popular Galinda solemnly and knowingly responds,“of course she does."
...Connection isn’t just a feel-good idea, on-screen or in our real lives—it’s fundamental to our very survival as a species....
By Lauren Demshar Abbott LCSW, SAC
November 10, 2025
What Your Graduate Program Didn’t Teach You About Dialectical Behavior Therapy
You have probably heard the name Dialectical Behavior Therapy in your time as a therapist. It is one of the most ubiquitous therapeutic modalities out there, and with good reason: it’s also one of the most effective.
But as we have discussed before, grad programs barely cover therapeutic approaches beyond the basics. And getting officially certified in DBT can be a lengthy and expensive endeavor. How do you know if it’s something that would work with your caseload? Frankly, how do you even know what it is....
By Madeline Korth, MSSA, LISW-S
November 3, 2025
Mental health clinicians are trained to thoroughly assess clients using a biopsychosocial perspective. Doing so helps us to recognize patterns, in terms of both diagnosing and treating different conditions as well as overall trends in our client population.
Since 2020, one shift I have noticed as a clinician is an increase in identity exploration outside the therapy room. While it certainly happened before the pandemic, in the past five-odd years, I have had a record number of clients present with a hunch that they might be queer, trans, neurodivergent, or some combination of the three....
October 20, 2025
October 6, 2025
If you’re like me, you are hearing about “the mental load” in sessions a lot lately. Seasoned therapists know that whatever is in the zeitgeist will make its way into our work eventually, for better or for worse. But the mental load isn’t just pop psychology – it’s a real thing, and the people carrying it are exhausted.
Several years ago, “You Should Have Asked,” by Emma Clit, a French cartoonist, began making the rounds online...
September 22, 2025
What Your Graduate Program Didn’t Teach You About Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
One of the most common complaints of new social work graduates is that their program did not teach them how to do therapy. Over 530,000 social workers were in the behavioral health workforce in 2022. Ironically, social work grad programs focus on generalist curricula, teaching you how to practice in a broad range of settings. Psychotherapy is just one of the jobs that a social worker can do....
August 25, 2025
As a sex therapist, I find that my clients often bring in topics that carry stigma. Whether it’s pelvic floor dysfunction, reconnecting with your postpartum body, or exploring ethical non-monogamy, clients report a sense of relief that they can finally talk about that thing. The thing that they have been carrying around like a heavy, shameful secret in their back pocket...
August 18, 2025
Many of us were taught in our graduate therapy programs to be a tabula rasa – a blank canvas for our clients to project upon (Bergkamp et al., 2023). Historically, our profession has emphasized the importance of separating ourselves from our work as a means of preserving professional boundaries. But the therapeutic relationship is widely thought to be the most important factor in effective treatment. If that is true, how can therapists who hold politicized identities remain “blank slates”...
November 4, 2024
At a recent case consultation with a group of respected therapists in my clinic, I presented a patient case causing me some frustration. I have been working with said patient for several years. Despite good rapport, consistency of appointments and stated desire to make changes...
October 21, 2024
The notion that ADHD is a diagnosis reserved for hyperactive, fidgety boys prevails. But research demonstrates that ADHD can...
By Olivia Lynn Schnur, MA, LMHC, LPC, CYT-200
October 14, 2024